It goes without saying that when it comes to exclusive romantic relationships, sex plays a big role. Too much of it and you can be certain the bond between the involved partners will grow stronger. Too little, and cheating will be imminent. Unfortunately, sex becomes monotonous at some point. Fortunately, the monotony issue is and has always been fixable. How? You guessed it right – spice things up. One easy way to go about it is by simply introducing sex toys in between the sheets. Don’t go for just about any other sex toy though. Go for one that has been tried and tested and yeah, been proven to guarantee endless fun and more importantly euphoric orgasms. Go for a strap on dildo. Here’s how to make the most of it.

Communicate

Make your intentions known before buying one. If you partner is an open minded, liberal partner, you can have an easy time. Alternatively, you can surprise your partner with one. Make sure the occasion is right though. It could be a birthday surprise or even an anniversary. But even then, do your homework just to find out what your partner thinks of sex toys before buying one.

Once you already have the strap on dildo, make it a point to always let your partner know how the toy feels. Moan if you have to. Let your partner know how well the dildo hits your sensitive parts.  This will go a long way to enhance your relationship and more importantly, make it easy for you to enjoy intimacy.

The Lube Factor

Lube plays a vital role when it comes to any form of penetrative sex. Yes, the female body is designed to arouse and ‘lubricate’ itself when aroused – that is as far as vaginal sex is concerned. It so happens though that once in a while, vaginal dryness pops up and stands in the way of great sex. It doesn’t end there. Hours and hours of sex can very easy mean that at some point, the vagina may not be wet enough or get wet on time to guarantee seamless penetrative sex. That’s is exactly where lube comes into the picture. You have no choice but to use plenty of it. Then by all means, always use water based lubes. This applies for both vaginal and anal sex. For anal sex, you don’t really have much of a choice. Use of lube is always a must. Note that the vagina and anus aren’t just sensitive. They also happen to be very absorbent. This makes the susceptible to STIs with continued use of scented silicone based lubricants.