It takes a certain amount of expertise to talk about sex or sexual platforms like porn sites or taboo cams. Suggestions of sex and sexuality infiltrate our lives in a variety of ways, from actions to advertisements. However, having a sex vocabulary does not necessarily translate into pleasant interactions. This is especially true when it comes to sex and what we desire from it. However, having good sex necessitates communication. An important skill is an openness to talk about the type of sex we have or wish to have. 

Talking about sex

It’s not only about having a good time when you have a private chat. Other sex-related issues include:

• sexual well-being
• how often we’d want to have sex
• ways to investigate unknowns

Dealing with partners and loving different things

Talking about these subjects may also help you create a stronger connection by allowing you to learn more about each other and do new things together while staying on the same page.

It’s also worth pushing through the awkwardness to discuss health, particularly STIs and birth control. Avoiding these important talks might jeopardize your health and change your plans for the future.

Taking control of your sexual health

It’s difficult to talk about your health with someone you’ll be physically intimate with. It may feel intrusive to ask them to be tested, especially if you’re doing it before you’ve had a chance to get to know each other. Knowing your personal sexual health condition might help you feel more at ease while making decisions. Consider inviting your partner to join you on your trip. If your spouse is hesitant to test and share the results, your openness to share information may be beneficial.

Consent

Keep in mind that both people should be passionate about having sex. Just because you’re having sexual contact with your long-term spouse doesn’t imply they’ve given you their permission.

If you ever feel sexually pressured by a partner, or if you are forced to have sex or be touched in a way you don’t want, know that your healthcare professionals are always available to assist you.